26A - Celebrating Failure
1) This semester, I lost a friend's trust after I spoke about him to a another friend and he found out. This was not a good approach and I should have been upfront and honest with him. It is much better to be honest and talk through to someone about how you feel than to tell someone else, even though it may be hard.
2) I learned that out of respect for the other person, it is better to be honest than to put on a facade or not be straightforward. Trust is at stake and it takes much more time to build trust than to break it, and once trust is lost. It takes time to build back. I learned that if someone has value in your life, than it is worthwhile to treat that person as such and treat them as you would want to be treated.
3) Failure is most definitely hard, and embarrassing. It takes fortitude and humility to be able to learn from failure and move on from it. Change is essential, and for me personally when I don't overthink the process of change and let it occur naturally, it works out well. After I go through the reflection period for enough time, change will occur on its own and any overthinking thoughts only inhibit change. I would say that yes I am more willing to take a risk after taking this class.
2) I learned that out of respect for the other person, it is better to be honest than to put on a facade or not be straightforward. Trust is at stake and it takes much more time to build trust than to break it, and once trust is lost. It takes time to build back. I learned that if someone has value in your life, than it is worthwhile to treat that person as such and treat them as you would want to be treated.
3) Failure is most definitely hard, and embarrassing. It takes fortitude and humility to be able to learn from failure and move on from it. Change is essential, and for me personally when I don't overthink the process of change and let it occur naturally, it works out well. After I go through the reflection period for enough time, change will occur on its own and any overthinking thoughts only inhibit change. I would say that yes I am more willing to take a risk after taking this class.
Hello, friends are hard to come around and honesty can make a relationship stronger. I’m sure what ever the situation was it was fixed immediately. I’ve learned the hard way with a similar situation. I agree with you that change is essential. I think it helps us grow and builds a stronger relationship with yourself. Thanks for sharing your post and keep up the good work.
ReplyDelete